Friday, May 17, 2024
Assalam Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatahu

Take full responsibility for your life.

  • Take full responsibility for your life.
  • Stop blaming others.
  • See yourself as the cause of what happens to you.
  •  Do things you like to do.Don't stay in a job you don't like.
  • Participate in life at the highest level you can.
  • Stop terrorising yourself with your thoughts.
  • Be gentle and kind and patient with yourself.
  • Give yourself the simple pleasures of life abundantly.
  • Wear clothes you feel good in, get a massage etc.
  • Watch what you say.
  • Avoid self put-downs.
  • Stop being critical of yourself and others.
  • Take care of your body.
  • Give it exercise and good food.
  • Be willing to create a life-style that generates and nourishes self-esteem.Associate with others with high esteem
  • Acknowledge yourself frequently.
  • Keep a diary of your successes and accomplishments.
  • Avoid comparing yourself with others.
  • Remember that it's who we are, not what we do, that's important.
  • Give yourself permission to do nothing periodically.
  • Schedule time by yourself.Frequently take deep breaths.
  • Discover the benefit and pleasure of breathing fully.Eat first class frequently.Don't look at the right side of the menu.
  • Stop trying to change others.
  • Focus your attention on being the way you want others to be.
  • Look into a mirror regularly and say "I love you, I really love you".
  • Stop feeling guilty and saying "I'm sorry".
  • See mistakes as valuable lessons and avoid judging yourself.
  • Consciously generate positive thoughts and feelings of self-love in place of old thoughts of inadequacy.
  • Be willing to laugh at yourself and at life.
  • Stop taking yourself so seriously.
  • Accept compliments from others without embarrassment.
  • Don't invalidate their positive thoughts and feelings about you.
  • Be kind to your mind.Don't hate yourself for having negative thoughts.
  • Gently change your thoughts.
  • Keep your awareness and your thoughts focused in present time instead of living in the past or future.
  • Acknowledge others frequently.
  • Tell them what you like and appreciate in them.
  • Invest money in yourself.Go to seminars, workshops and courses that develop your talents.
  • Make a list of 10 things you love doing and do them frequently.
  • Treat yourself as you would treat someone you really loved.
  • Praise Allah first and then yourself.

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