In the name of Allah, the Most-Merciful, the All-Compassionate

 

"May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be Upon You"

 

Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah

                       As-Salaam Alaykum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakaatuh

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 1) DIVORCE IN ISLAM

I was shocked to read in newspapers that a husband pronounced TALAQ three times on phone and paid Rs.15000/-cash for divorcé. This is unadulterated nonsense. This is no divorce and the woman continues to be the wife of the man with conjugal and inheritance rights on the husband and she cannot remarry. If she goes to court their decision, applying Muslim Personal Law, will be in her favour. Such Talaqs are making mockery of Islam for which punishment in Akhira is severe (Saudi Arabia has banned such talaqs).The rules for divorce in Islam are well laid out in Holy Quran and I am quoting them below

 “The Muslim is allowed three chances, that is to say, three pronouncements or acts of divorce on three different occasions, provided that each divorce is pronounced during the time when the wife is in period of purity and he has had no intercourse with her.

A husband may divorce his wife once and let the Iddah pass. During the period of Iddah the two have the option of being reconciled without the necessity of remarriage.

If, however, this waiting period expires without reconciliation, they are now fully divorced. Each of them is free to marry someone else or to remarry each other; should they want to remarry each other, the new marriage contract is required.

 

If after the first divorce the husband is reconciled with his wife but later the hostility and conflict begin all over again, all efforts at reconciliation and arbitration resulting in failure, he may divorce her a second time in the same manner as described above. In this case, too, he can return to her during the Iddah without remarriage, or after the iddah has expired through a new marriage contract.

 

But it may happen that although he is reconciled with his wife again after the second divorcé, he may later divorce her for the third time. This will then be a clear proof that the hostility between the two of them runs very deep and that they are incapable of living together. If this third divorce takes place, it is not permissible for the husband to return to his wife during her Iddah, nor may he remarry her after the iddah unless she has been married to another man, to live with him  as a permanent and true wife, and he then subsequently divorces her. It is, however, totally prohibited for the other man to marry and divorce her simply in order to make her halal for her first husband.

 

Those Muslims who utter divorce pronouncements at one time or in one statement are rebels against Allah’s law and are deviating from the straight path of Islam. Once the Holy Prophet was informed about a man who had pronounced three divorces at one time. He got up in anger, saying, is sport being made of the book of Allah when I am yet among you? As a result, a man stood up and said,Oh Messenger of Allah, shall I not kill him?”

If our Holy Prophet was among us how would he have reacted to talaq, talaq, talaq at one go. High time our Ulema and Muslim Personal law Board step in and stop this nonsense of talaq, talaq, talaq at one go. Media is making a mockery of us.

Sisters to take up this issue at every opportunity-conference, seminars, meetings, group discussions and even in drawing rooms of your houses. Do not become victims of illegal (haram) actions which have no sanction in Islam.
(REF.The lawful and prohibited in Islam by Yusuf Al-Qaradawi pg.216/17)

 

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2) Remember

 

There are sorrows which are like rivers waterfalls, slip and fall soft on your life without stopping to obstacles, and then lead to the beaches of your future happiness.

When you notice that your eyes lose the brightness of the evening, remember that in the morning the sun comes up, which will make your day start your day...

So I always wait for the morning with your head up.

All you could perceive troubles in life are meant to remember that you still have the taste to distinguish good from bad.

You only live one day at a time.

So even if you hurry, you have to wait 24 hours to see tomorrow.

Much love in heaven for you.

I want to remind you that there will always be open source and heavy rainfall will you keep in your mind how important you are to God, who loves intense and strong hugs to ever leave you.

You are the heartbeat of God.

You're the smile that touches your lips now and forever.

Believe it, it's true!

Whenever a judge shopping, make a stop in your thoughts and praise God for what they gave you to adorn any place where you are.

Keep in mind that God manages your pain in a seamless manner.

Never forget that...

Life is a luxury. It is the exquisite taste to keep one foot over the other.

Yes, life is a luxury.

Luxury to love, to breathe, to dream and to be happy.

So spend your life as if you were a millionaire.

May your smile be similar to children when they know they are loved and that they see in this day you were born to get a touch on each of your heartbeats; you know the taste of perfume your mouth with words full of flavor inside you.

And let the peace that surrounds the paternal heart of God is the one you keep saturated peace in this, your only day that suits you live.

Being alive is one of the most beautiful gifts that you can keep your spirit, your soul and eternal youth.

So manifest your vivacity in everything you do, laugh like last time, dreams as children and make yourself a human being live and let live.

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