7 Things You Will Relate To Because You Are A People Pleader! Print Email Hits: 1725 Tweet 7 Things You Will Relate To Because You Are A People Pleader! Do you constantly find yourself taking care of everyone else’s needs before your own? Are you always feeling the need to keep people around you happy all the time? Feeling bogged down by the fear of being misconstrued or disappointing anyone? Finally, are you also trying to avoid conflict-oriented situations? Well, you might be a people pleaser even before you realized it. So for all those who might want to know if they have traits of a people pleaser, here are some of them: 1. You take care of everyone else’s needs before your own. You believe in taking care of others’ needs first while putting your own at last. Wanting to take care of others is not a bad thing and if more people had a bit of what you have, the world would be a better place. 2. You are bankable. Whether it is volunteering to cover up for a co-worker’s night shift when he/she is down and out or baby-sitting a friend’s niece or driving a friend to office when his/her car broke down, you are more than happy to do it. 3. You are well connected in your social circle You are surely the life of a party. Social, likeable, friendly, approachable, outgoing- describe you the best. You have a very magnetic personality because of which you end up making a big social circle and a support system. 4. You have amazing PR skills and tend to do well professionally. These days work is more about networking than just being good at the job you are entrusted with. Being approachable and at the same time always going an extra mile to make long lasting relationships with your colleagues and superiors gives you an edge over others. 5. You have a hard time saying ‘no’. You are one of those who would attend a karaoke session with a friend just to make him/her happy even if it isn’t your cup of tea. You have a hard time saying ‘no’ even if it is for things which drain you or don’t make you happy. 6. You avoid conflict. Since you want everyone around you to be happy, you are good at avoiding friction within a social circle. You not only avoid conflict but you are great at resolving them too. 7. You tend to apologize even when it isn’t your fault. Being someone who wants to avoid conflict at all costs, you tend to apologize for things you aren’t even responsible. Prev Next